Over the Hills and Far Away.
Over the Hills and Far Away.
Diddley hated violence of any kind. She would never watch a nasty film or TV programme even potentially violent. Emmerdale was her limit! So how come she watched every episode of “Sharpe”? A series of true violence, based on the Napoleonic wars. Each week awash with death and destruction mostly at our French friends’ expense. Simple. Sean Bean! He was a true man. His accent and his deeds in Sharpe swept her off her emotional feet. He was not an officer or a gentleman either and that appealed to her rebellious nature. Add to that the mesmeric theme tune – “Over the Hills and Far Away” above and her lust for Sharpe was insatiable to such an extent she bought the crated boxed set.
The legacy for Bobby is a phrase that has become part of his vocabulary.
“Over the Hills and Far Away.”
An accident precipitated this story. I wasn’t there, but it sounds very upsetting for Bobby. To save you the details that have been on Facebook, a young learner motor cyclist ran into Bobby’s stationary car. At first, it looked very serious for the young lad. Potentially fatal. Four hours later, following police, ambulance and fire brigade intervention, he was discharged from hospital. Leaving a trail of traumatised people and written off his brand new motorcycle and Bobby’s beloved old car. He rang Bobby and apologised profusely. “I am so sorry Mr Bobby. It was all my fault.” As Bobby told him we were all young once, but you are very lucky. There could have been a policeman on your parent’s doorstep giving them the bad news.
Fast forward to the next day.
No car.
Old Mother Hubbard.
Go shopping.
The long way.
Over the Hills and Far Away.
Late summer. Early autumn. A heavenly sunny day and one of Bobby’s favourite walks from Laurel Cottage to Dorking. Two hours or so over the glorious Surrey Hills.
Old Bury Hill fishing lake is where Bobby’s late sister Wendy lived and ran the lake for over twenty years. The history of Bury Hill, its stately home, the Barclay family and its place in Surrey history is worthy of many books. In younger days, Bobby’s family spent a lot of time here with many memories. We shall revisit this one day.
Galleting. A stonework technique found in England almost exclusively in the South East between the North and South Downs where sandstone is common. And in Norfolk where the same effect is achieved with flint. This the wall of Bury Hill Lodge.
This view was a family favourite in Andrew’s young days when, as a Rupert Bear devotee, we always thought this could be Nutwood. Look carefully in the middle of the photo and you will spot the spire of St Martin’s church in the centre of Dorking. It has one of the highest church spires in England and can be seen miles away.
This is a very personal account of a lovely walk to go shopping in Waitrose. Bobby tells me that if you ever feel like going with him, you would be most welcome. 93 bus back to South Holmwood. If you like maps, the local OS 1:25000 map follows – with the walk highlighted. Eagle eyed will notice “The Temple”, just above the lake. Surrey Wildlife Trust call it “The Pavilion”. Locals have always known it as “The Summerhouse”. Sheltered from the rain in it; watched the changing seasons; caroused in it.; watched the stars and the satellites on a clear night. Years ago, it was in very poor condition but, thankfully, the local authority completely restored it and, apart from a few initials, it stays in good condition. And is probably taken for granted. Not many knowing now that it was once part of a private estate that was given in part to the people of Dorking by the Barclays.
PS
The dust has settled a little. The lovely Lisa of L J Motors collected our loyal old car. Never to be seen again. A newer Zafira currently awaits Bobby in Salisbury.
Lighting a Candle for Diddley
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This walk looks amazing, how beautiful. Once my hip pain has gone I will definitely join you. Jennifer
Look forward to that. Thank you
The Nower… I had forgotten.. I was a girl guide.. I think of the 2nd Dorking platoon.. but we met at a community centre near the Nower and went there for various expeditions… lots of fun and messing about it.. thanks for reminding me of it.. and of Cummins.. my Dad’s favourite shop. I also remember there being a pig abbatoir in the main carpark.. underground slightly, but you could peer through these gaps and see the poor pigs awaiting slaughter. I saw a man with a bloody knife and overalls.. really upsetting..you could hear the pigs squealing. I have to say I do love pork though and bacon.
thanks Bob, for taking me on that lovely walk with you
The abbatoir was Chitty’s the butchers own one. Now town houses as you come under the arch from Sainbury car park. I remember the lorries arriving with the squealing pigs. Getting out more than once and doing a runner down the High Street. Not just pigs. Lambs too.
My ex loved lambs liver and bought it still warm…
wow, that butcher must have been good, with such fresh meat.