Frank Mansell
Frank Mansell.
It’s the twenty-third of August 2016. Bobby and I are sitting at the Laurie Lee bar in the Woolpack pub at Slad in Gloucestershire. Him talking to anyone who will listen. Me thinking about Frank Mansell. A poet and close friend of Diddley’s.
She grew up and went to her first school in Slad. A beautiful village in a valley near Stroud, made famous by Laurie Lee’s iconic book “Cider With Rosie”. His autobiographical story of growing up in a disappearing world. Where the traditional village life of centuries was being lost to the march of progress. Particularly the motor car.
He had a great friend in Frank Mansell. Another poet with his head in the clouds, writing beautiful words while climbing telegraph poles as a Post Office engineer. A demon fast bowler for the village club of Sheepscombe nearby to Slad.
What follows is Diddley’s own account of her friendship with Frank. A suspicion of poetic licence not realised following Bobby finding letters and poems that revealed a real friendship. Between a fourteen year old girl and a forty seven year old poet. That was entirely proper but not something that would be acceptable today I suspect. Frank fancied Diddley’s mum Sarah. The feelings were not reciprocated due, apparently, to his excessively large underpants. But his friendship with her daughter endured until he died in 1979. By then long distance as she had married and moved away. Her most famous story being driven in his three wheeler Robin Reliant van a la Del Boy to Cherington lake. A beauty spot. To talk about vegetarianism. Astrology. And drink Glenfiddich whisky at fourteen……
When she and Bobby married, he was often taken to Frank’s grave at Misserden in February at snowdrop time. To Sheepscombe cricket club, where a dramatised Laurie Lee perspective had Lee himself talking about Frank bowling and an actor running into bowl where the batsmen could only see the top of his head at the beginning of his run. The pitch being on the side of a hill. We would love to see that film again.
Frank the poet became Frank the cat in his memory. A cat who was buried after being knocked down by a car and reincarnated when it was realised as he purred by his own grave. Wrong cat.
Frank’s most well known work is his book Cotswold Ballads. Her most prized possession. If you look at the frontispiece you will notice “Foreword by Laurie Lee”. “Wood engravings by Robert Ball”. Bobby’s real name. She lost a record of Frank reading his poems with some sung by folk singers. Bobby wrote to the SNJ. The Stroud News and Journal. Some people replied. Including Robert Ball himself. Then a very old man. Bobby asked him if he called himself “Bob” and “yes” was the answer. So we had Bob Ball talking to Bob Ball and no mention of that fat bloke with braces. He sent the recording. Nowadays we can all enjoy it through the Sheepscombe village website>>
http://www.sheepscombe.org/frank-mansell/4582675963
And fittingly the recordings were played at Diddley’s funeral. A poem by Frank himself and a folk song.
We love the stories about Frank. Love his poetry that evokes a very special relationship that Bobby and I now have with this beautiful part of the world. When we spread Diddley’s ashes on Swifts Hill high above Slad they floated unerringly towards the Woolpack. And left us with a legacy to pass onto Diddley’s grandchildren.
If you go back to the Sheepscombe website and click on “Cottagers Reply”, you will hear Franks wonderful Gloucestershire accent for yourself and see below the cottage he referred to. The Salt Box. We went there and by chance met Robert Eaton who know owns the cottage. His was such an interesting conversation that we will save it for a future blog. Next February, when Bobby will bring his family at snowdrop time to be shown round Salt Box and hear more about their granny’s young days. Me, Bobby, granddaughters Jasmine and Layla, Jay, Jasmine’s partner and Bobby’s first great grandchild. We will stand by Frank’s grave and remember two of life’s wonderful characters. Drinking Glenffidich by moonlight in a Robin Reliant van at Cherington lakes
Lighting a candle to Diddley
It seems Bobby is well into his Uley Brewery Pigs Ear. So this week’s candle is lit in a pub. The Woolpack, Slad.
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Bertie. It seems you have your own poetic memories of Diddley. You weave your memories and paint a picture of times gone by and people much missed. Take care of Bobby. x
This is such a romantic, poignant story. Diddley, Frank (the poet), Frank (the cat), Bobby & Bertie, Laurie Lee, snowdrops, I loved it.
Bertie and Bob, I must say this is lovely stuff. You know Anna and I love Cider with Rosie, Slad and the Woolpack. You given me lots more things to look for next time including the snowdrops at Cherington as well of memories of Diddley(?)
No comment about two R. Balls apart from the amazing coincidence.
Robert Ball senior, was a lovely caring man and my ‘A’ level art tutor in my first year at art college in 1962/63. Another unsung artist as his politics didn’t fit.
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My name is Jim Allen. From 1976 until mid-1979, my family and I lived in Far End House,Sheepscombe, next to John Workman. I never made it to The Woolpack, but did see Frank Mansell several times at The Butcher’s Arms. My wife saw him at the WI one day.
Can you give me a written source for the words of the poem “The Farm Dog”? My eldest Border collie is about to leave us, just as the farm dog did in the song/poem, and I would like to have the text to read over him before we bury him. No cold Cotswold clay here in Maryland, USA.
Thank you for any help or direction you may be able to give me.
Dear Jim
I have sent you an email. The Farm Dog is in Cotswold Ballads and is copied in the email. I shall be back in the Cotswolds on 15th February walking up Swifts Hill with her friends to where her ashes lie. By Laurie Lee”s poetry post. We will then retire to the Butchers Arms. Please let me know how you get on. If it is not too indelicate to ask but I would love to put this on the blog at a later stage. Even a picture of his grave. By all means tell me off if you think that inappropriate. My wife would have loved to have read this.
Farm Dog
We laid him down deep on the good Cotswold stone,
Too deep for the plough or the frost to come down;
By the blackthorn we laid him, so rigid and thin,
Cold clay was the blanket we covered him in.
The gentle brown head, that was warm on the knee,
Looks out to the east where the sunrise will be;
The tail, ever eager to welcome a friend,
Across to the west where the daylight will end.
The corn will come green and the days will grow warm,
Another will guard the approach to the farm;
But none will be sharper or keener of sight
Than he who lies under the blackthorn tonight.
His life was all duty, a permanent prowl,
The terror of foxes and guardian of fowl,
Inspector of callers, disperser of crows,
Destroyer of rodents and herder of cows.
Now strangers will trespass, the foxes grow bold,
The rodents will revel as never of old;
And many a pullet will go to her fate,
For want of the watchdog that’s gone from the gate.
We laid him down gently on good Cotswold stone,
Too deep for the plough or the frost to come down;
By the blackthorn we laid him, so rigid and thin,
Cold clay was the blanket we covered him in.
Frank Mansell
Thank you, Bob. I may have replied already, buy I know it was incomplete.. Our first BC was named Brith, a Welsh word meaning ‘pied’, as in magpie. We got him in Jan 1996, just after I retired from the U.S. civil service and was able to pursue things other than work and football. Since then we, my wife and I, have had 11 more BCs. Twoi are left now, Sunny and Nick, ages 13 and 11. The farm is history, as are the sheep and all the equipment. The “boys” are still keeping me fairly fit for an 82-year-old. Sunny is ailing and not likely to reach 17, the age at which my Zip died in 2017
If you and your wife decide to visit the Colonies, you are certainly welcome to visit us either here in Maryland or in Vermont (usually June-early October.
Hello,
We would love to use the ‘See These Hands’ poem by Frank Mansell for our mums funeral. Please does anybody have the full lyrics available? Perhaps a photo of the poem?
Thank you very much!
Of course, Bobby would have had a copy. He did have a CD, which I had for a while. I see that it is available on Amazon: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Cotswold-Ballads-Poetry-Frank-Mansell/dp/B000KB7MKK. Hope this helps.
Tim (“Technical Director”).
And only now do I see Robert Ball’s name in the credits. Wow! Thank you for being patient with me.
This was only the second blog I had ever written. In August 2016. To hear from you now is enormously gratifying that I have created a lasting memoir. My wife, the famous Diddley, would be so pleased that I have kept these memories of her and her hero Frank Mansell alive for posterity.
I, too, thank you, Bob. Am pleased with the blog and with our exchange of thoughts.
Please keep up the good work!!
Jim
I am trying to learn what the bluestone is that Frank Mansell mentioned
No idea. Sorry.
I am trying to learn what the bluestone is that Frank Mansell mentioned
Not a clue. Sorry.
I have asked my Cotswold friends. “Bluestone” traditionally are the stones of Stonehenge that are regarded as originating from the Preselli mountains in West Wales. Frank Mansell, like his great friend Laurie Lee was a typical poet. In other words given to poetic licence. In the absence of anything else that is our suggested answer.
Poetic licence.